I want to speak my Sponsor’s language fluently. I want to ride his face everytime I watch him being the Boss and speaking with all that passion.😩 I think I’m just attracted to this crazy amount of Power. I watch this man and learn so much. I’m thankful.
This right here is for my sugar sisters especially the darkies. You WILL NOT, find the type of man you want/need on these sugar sites or dating sites nowadays. I struck something solid once years ago and that shit fizzled. In my experience the type of man you really want that will make your life comfortable doing things like making sure you always have thousands on hand, buying you a car, a home, luxury goods, and just overall making sure you do not need anything is NOT on these sites. That man is out living! He is eating/ drinking at the BEST restaurants/bars in the city. He is working out at the best places. He lives in the nicest areas and trust me those places always have attractive women. Whether he is awkward or not a man with that type of money is ALWAYS on the scene near women. So the best thing to do is put yourself out there! If you know the places that are poppin or an event that you know that type of man will be at make sure you are there and ready! The moment I left them sites alone and started working rooms I met different type of men who all were up to give me what I wanted. These men know how to treat a young lady that he wants to keep! You won’t have to ask for much. Y’all don’t get tired of negotiating with men you would never look at twice on the street? If you know you got it go out there and get it! I’m only saying this cause I know for a fact what’s out there I go out with my guy and I’m usually the only female amongst his friends who are all about that life. Put yourself in a position to win Babes!
Anonymous asked:
modelinterrupted answered:
I told him that I like my men to take charge and take care of things. When we were speaking I basically told him I never get involved with men who won’t take care of things lol. He knew. You set the expectation by telling them what you’re used to and if he’s paid he’ll act accordingly. I hope it goes well💞
Anonymous asked:
frugalhoe answered:
Watch more porn and practice on dildos 😛
Lol so true 😂. I use pornhub solely for education.
People are always citing SW being correlated with illness as a reason it should be illegal or is generally immoral.
Yeeeet, 75% of the mentally and emotionally draining aspects of this work is because of the stigma of SW.
The stigma is many of us have to lead near double lives, shut out our closest friends, and end up extremely isolated. At least for me, it also keeps me in a state of constant fear about being outed and what the would mean for my career & family.
Be the woman who upsets people because you actually kept your high standards
Moi
(via sbcaribbeanbeauty)
I have made up such intricate, vivid stories about my fake job that I literally could never out myself … even if I wanted to … because I would look certifiably insane.
I’ve officially lumped all my clients into one crazy boyfriend when catching up with real life friends and they’re all dying to meet this fictional man who may or may not have multiple personality issues 😭 I’ve invested way too much detail into this fake man to confess now….
Anonymous asked:
brownbarbiesugar answered:
It’s unrealistic to expect money from someone who you will never see, unless you manage to scams your way through it. Even then, it wont be lasting money coming in, it will just be a lucky few hundred bucks every now and then, IF you’re lucky.
Try meeting rich men online, even meeting older men on tinder can work (there are tinder sugar tags for advice). If that fails, are there upscale dining/lounges where you live? Free styling might be your best option! And there are also great posts on that. One of the last posts I reblogged talks about recognizing and attracting men of wealth in public settings that are usually upscale. It’s a long post not far down past the asks I’ve answered tonight. Go look!
-Serena
My therapist told me something meaningful yesterday, she said “It’s important to remember that when you’re depressed you have to nurse yourself and be extra gentle towards yourself. Just like an athlete wouldn’t break an ankle then force themselves to run that ankle. They rest as it heals and do not think “I am a failed athelete” they think, “right now something isn’t working so i’ll take care of myself until it does.“
Just like a broken bone, depression can change the way your daily life plays out, and pushing yourself too hard and getting frustrated when you don’t feel better is just like trying to run on that broken ankle and getting frustrated when it doesn’t heal.
no offense but I suck at responding to most messages so please don’t think it’s you. It’s def me.
Does anyone else feel this way? Some days I just have a mental block when it comes to communicating effectively with people. I really do love y’all tho 😭💕
